Ali Phillips has been a friend of mine for years. Recently I saw her at a
WIPA (Wedding Industry Professional Association) meeting where she spoke on destination weddings and events. She talked about how to create a sense of place. Here, she expands on that information, and tells us how to
enhance the sense of place. After all, who wants to have a wedding in Africa that looks like it's "Anywhere USA?" Having done many events in locations around the world with
AOO Events, I agree with Ali that the most important part of these events is not bringing your preconceived notions or style, or those of your clients, but breaking down barriers and inviting the surrounding environment and all it offers to the party.
David Merrell
Creative Director, AOO Events, Lead Designdawg
ENHANCING A SENSE
OF PLACE
By
Ali Phillips
Long
ago, after I had spent five years of planning weddings locally, one of my best friends who was
living in South Africa got engaged. She picked up the phone to me and her first word was "HELP!" And I did, planning my first major destination wedding in South Africa. I was hooked.
I love
to travel. I have a major wanderlust and my team always jokes that I am
planning my next trip as I am traveling home from my current trip. This
wanderlust has shaped my wedding business to what it is today -- one with a heavy focus on destination weddings.
Jenny and Martin at Zimbali Lodge in
South Africa
The
romance of getting married in a faraway place is what makes destination
weddings one of the fastest growing sectors of the wedding market, with 84%
growth since 2011. People are inviting
friends and family to the beach, the mountains and even castles in the UK to do
something a little different and get married “away.”
WHEN GOING AWAY, GO LOCAL
When
I am working with my clients and designing their destination wedding or event and
the events surrounding that main event, we always talk about creating that
“sense of place” for their guests. This sense of place creation involves
embracing the local food, colors, sounds and music of the destination.
When
we design and plan, we take many local details into account. The time of the
sunset, when the time the bugs come out on Caribbean destinations, the tides
and when the high tide happens for a beach, the local happenings and favorite
places to visit with guests.
And
most often we are embracing the indigenous food of the area. Menus might include jerk
chicken in Jamaica, pork and beans in Puerto Rico, Conch chowder in the Bahamas
or a ceviche bar in Turks and Caicos.
A WARM WELCOME
Photos: Sarah Alair
The event begins with a warm letter and basket (which doesn't necessarily have to be a "basket")
to welcome guests after a long day of travel.
For this wedding in Kentucky, the
welcome kit was filled with local favorites such as bourbon, as well as
suggestions of things to do. All of it was very rustic in feeling, with wood
block printing on craft paper. It set the mood for a fun, casual event.

We want guests to be completely informed of all the
happenings around the wedding but also the favorite spots to visit, eat at, and
check out when in town. We work locally to represent the most well-known places as well as those off the beaten path.
This look was perfect for that Kentucky wedding. But for a wedding in St. John, the look and feel was completely different, more in tune with the tropical, fun feeling of that island.
Photo by Paul Morse
Photo: Sarah Alair
Finally, we also like to include items in the welcome bag that would be useful for travelers, from bug spray to little amenity items that might not be available in that destination.
HAPPENINGS
I
like to work with my clients to plan and design all of the events around the
area and it’s amazing offerings. For a Costa Rica wedding it may be an optional
zip line tour. For a Kentucky wedding it might be a tour of the bourbon makers with lunch, an outing to the horse races or a boat cruise the day after the wedding.
I
always start by speaking with the concierge at the hotel where we are hosting the
guest rooms. They are a great resource for local tours and trips and what has been a favorite (or not) with guests. I also often reach out to the local board of tourism
and they are always very helpful in getting information about the location we
are heading for our clients' weddings.
And
there is nothing better than going with your client to experience the
property/island/castle that they are getting married to get to experience
things first hand.
MUSIC AND
ENTERTAINMENT
We
love to also incorporate local music when we are doing destination weddings.
From steel drums in St. John to a blue grass band in Kentucky, we want guests to experience the sounds of that destination.
DETAILS
Even
things down to the guest book can have a local flavor. For the wedding we did
in St. John we found old St. John postcards and put those out in a creative manner for guests to write
on. We also did this for a Chicago wedding when all the guests were from out of
town.
Jeremy Lawson Photography
Aisle runners are a great place to add local details. For instance, seashells
from the beach are perfect for chairs that line the aisle.
Photos: Blue Grass Photography
And
don’t forget the flip-flops for dancing late night or navigating to the beach
for the late night bonfire and s'mores.
TIP FROM THE PRO
At
many locations we work we have to make sure we have ample lighting for our
events. The sun sets very quickly in the Caribbean and I am always careful to
scout the location in advance and talk about all possible lighting available to
us. This not only works well from a gorgeous design perspective but is
also safer for the guests.
Photos: Blue Grass Photography
Wherever
your clients chose to have their wedding, make sure to do a site visit with
them to learn more about the culture. Get to know the creative partners in the area where the wedding is taking place. To me, it's always more important that I know how THEY like to work with client, rather than how I like to. I want to hear what
works for them and learn more how we can work together since often times I am
working at a location for the first time.
The most important tool for any destination event
planner is an open mind and a great team. Having both will result in a successful and memorable wedding or event!
About Ali Phillips
Ali Phillips, owner of
Engaging Events by Ali based in Chicago, is one of that city's top wedding consultants. And while Chicago
is Ali’s “kind of town,” she has planned events in Vermont,
Lake Geneva, Wisconsin,
the Caribbean Islands
and South Africa. She is a member of the Wedding Industry Professionals Association (WIPA) and a certified Professional Bridal Consultant with the Association of Bridal Consultants (ABC). She is the president of the Chicago chapter of Wish Upon a Wedding and a member of ISES. Ali has been named one of the top Chicago Wedding Planner in
Chicago Magazine and has also been named in
The Knot's "Best of Weddings" numerous times.